DORE IBINTU UMUGORE YAKORERA UMUGABO WE BIKAMUSHIMISHA!!

  1. Niba agarutse avuye ku kazi, mu rugendo, cyangwa mu kindi gikorwa icyo ari cyo cyose cyari cyamutandukanyije nawe, tangira umusuhuza neza.
  2. Iyo umwakiriye cyangwa uhuye nawe bikore ufite isura nziza/yishimye.
  3. Ambara imyenda myiza. Irimbishe amavuta ahumura ku bwe.
  4. Iyo utangiye kumuvugisha utangire kubintu cyangwa inkuru nziza, kandi niba hari amakuru mabi utegereze kugeza aruhutse.
  5. Mwakize amagambo y’urukundo n’imvugo ishimira, umwihanganishe cyangwa indi mvugo igaragaza impuhwe kubera akazi yiriwemo umunsi wose.
  6. Ryosha kandi woroshye ijwi ryawe kubw’umugabo wawe, ntukabikore imbere y’abandi bagabo.
  7. Ita ku mubiri wawe kandi uwugumishe mu buryo bwiza kandi busa neza.
  8. Koresha parufe, amabara n’imyambaro umugabo wawe akunda.
  9. Kora ibishoboka byose kugirango uhindure imisatsi, parufe nibindi. Ariko ntugakabye, kandi ubikore umugabo wawe gusa.
  10. Ntutinde kumuha urukundo mugihe umugabo wawe yumva ashaka gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina.
  11. Mubwire amagambo ye meza kandi y’urukundo.
  12. Wishimire ibyo wahawe imigisha kandi uhabwa agaciro n’Imana.
  13. Wibuke ko ubutunzi nyabwo buboneka mu kwizera no kubaha Imana.
  14. Ntugire agahinda kuko umugabo wawe ari umukene cyangwa akora akazi gasanzwe. Reba abakene, abarwayi nabafite ubumuga hanyuma ushimire Imana kubyo yabahaye.
  15. Shishikariza umugabo wawe kugabanya amafaranga no kuzigama amafaranga yimpano no gufasha abakene nabatishoboye.
  16. Shimira umugabo wawe.
  17. Niba ushima, umugabo wawe azagukunda cyane kandi azagerageza kugushimisha kurushaho.
  18. Komera ku mugabo wawe, cyane cyane mu bihe by’amakuba, umubabaro, uburwayi cyangwa igihe umugabo wawe yahombye cyangwa adafite amafaranga.
  19. Niba akoze amakosa, ntukamurakarire. Tegereza kugeza atuje hanyuma umuvugishe utuje kandi mwiza. 20 Niba akurakariye hanze y’urugo, tegereza kugeza atuje.
  20. Ntukabaze ibibazo byinshi cyangwa ngo ushimangire kumenya uko byagenze. Kurugero, hari abagore bamwe, iyo babonye umugabo ufite imiterere itandukanye, batangira kuvuga: Mbwira uko byagenze? Ugomba kumbwira icyaguteye uburakari kugeza igihe hivyo uhishe iki? Mfite uburenganzira bwo kubimenya cyangwa hari umugore uguhungabanya?
  21. Erekana ubwakiranyi abashyitsi bayo ubategurira ahantu heza ho gucumbika, ibiryo byiza, nibindi.
  22. Wige kurera abana neza no kubaha ingeso nziza zo kurera.
  23. Ntukoreshe amafaranga ye utabiherewe uruhushya, kabone niyo yaba ari igitambo, wenda niba uzi neza ko azabyemera.
  24. Gerageza gutuma abana bamera neza, imyenda isukuye n.k. Bahe ibiryo bifite intungamubiri, witondere cyane ubuzima bwabo, uburezi n’indangagaciro nziza. Mubigishe kumenya Imana n’idini ryanyu muri rusange.

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